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Why does that number matter to you?

Last week I was doing a session with one of my clients and the subject of her measurements came up, which is something I do with my body composition clients fairly regularly to keep them on the right path.  By the way, fairly regularly means every 4-6 weeks, not every week like some people would think.  She also basically said she was concerned about her scale weight, because it hadn’t gone down a lot.  When I asked her “does it matter?” she said yes.  Then, when I asked “why?” she couldn’t come up with anything.  This is a woman who can deadlift over her own bodyweight, sprint, do pull-ups and push ups without batting an eyelash, generally is very strong and healthy, plus can do it all without the back pain she came to me in the first place about.  The fact she couldn’t even explain it really made me think about the reasons she cared in the first place.

One thing I’m constantly trying to do with my practice is really make people think about the reasons that things happen to their bodies, but also the reasons behind why they are there in the first place.  When I’m doing an initial session with someone and taking girth and calliper numbers (if that is something they want to change as a goal) they often ask if I’m going to weigh them.  The truth is, I really don’t care what you weigh and neither should you.  If you do, then there is something else going on that we need to explore.

None of us walk around with our weight tattooed on our foreheads, and even if we did it would change hourly throughout the day.  To most people, however losing weight means scale weight, which is really kind of a dumb way to look at changing your body anyway.  One of my main goals with clients is to actually add muscle tissue to them (and the fear of that requires a whole other article) while also reducing the bodyfat on top of it in the hopes that they will not only be able to do more with their tension producing tissue (ie lift stuff, run, whatever they want to do) but also look better doing it – if that is their goal.  All scale weight really means when it comes down to it is how much gravity is pushing down on the tissue that you already have.  By trying to get lighter, you are more commonly going to actually reduce muscle tissue along with fat, and be actually worse off than before, even though you might think because of some arbitrary number that you are better off.

One of my clients who is a fitness competitor was training for her second show and it was a year since her first show and she looked amazing.  She had also gained ten pounds from what she had competed on stage at last time weight wise.  This actually upset her until I pointed out that she looked better and placed higher, while also having the same bodyfat level.  She could also lift more and do more without hurting herself.  So why did that silly scale number matter?

Here’s my suspicion, and you can jump all over me if you like but I’ll say it anyway.  While they are growing up, people hear about some ideal “number” that they should be, and either have a bad experience with a person who made them feel terrible because they weren’t at that number or had a good experience while they were at that number and think that the good experience was a result of their weight, not because they might be a good person or deserve something good.  Our society conditions us to think that one thing is “good” while another is “bad” which is typically garbage marketing anyway.  We have conditions in our brain that tell us that we are not where we should be, and more often than not those are imposed by somebody other than ourselves.  An abusive spouse, a really nasty co-worker, a friend who is jealous of something can all be examples of this.  When people come to see me I try to get them to focus on what matters, which is what you can do, not what you look like.  It’s how you live your life for yourself, not for anybody else.  Like I said, if you tell people you weigh a certain amount and it changes the way people think about you – then those people suck.  In my opinion.

So the next time you want a good experience, come and see me for a session and ask me how much you weigh.  My answer will simply be: “I don’t fucking care.  Let’s go change your body for the better.”  And then we will go and have some fun.  Sound good?

Why is change so slow?

Recently in my city there has been a surge of people participating in a brand new MLM company.  I’ve been approached by these types of people many times over the years, and to a number they have all been exposed as companies that are not at all interested in your health, they are interested in your money and taking it from you while promising that you are going to be wealthy and have an amazing life if you just work for them and get all of your family and friends to participate.  I’m not totally against MLM, because some companies are more ethical and provide some really good things, while others simply are a method for some good salespeople to make a quick buck and then move onto the next company they choose to represent.

The most recent one has you taking two shakes a day and then eating a small meal for dinner, and promises that you will lose weight, feel amazing and totally transform yourself – all in only 90 days.  I can digress quickly and ask what these people are supposed to do after the 90 days are up?  Go back to their previous eating habits and lifestyle?  In fact, on some blogs for this company, their representatives actually state that “exercise is NOT required to lose weight on this program”.  To me this is completely ridiculous, and just feeds into the idea that you can have a quick fix and get results (while also parting with about $200 a month) and not have to worry about establishing a long term healthy lifestyle.  Digression over.  I’ll rant about that at the end.

So when I see things advertised like this or hear people talk about it, it makes me cringe, and then it just pisses me off.  95% of the time, these quick fixes do not work, and the poor people who have fallen for a line from a salesperson just lose their money, maybe some water weight and then gain it all back plus a bit more.  I have dozens of examples both personal and professional of people losing weight rapidly and then gaining it back just as rapidly (if not faster) plus a few reinforcements just in case that ever happens again.  I’m sure you have too.  One of my clients recently told me of a friend who actually did the Bernstein diet – three times!?  And now her body is still obese because she gained more weight back each time and as an added bonus her kidneys and digestive system are constantly in turmoil and discomfort.  Go figure.

Here is the funny thing about your body.  It doesn’t like rapid change.  There is something within your body called homeostasis.  It is the way that your body regulates everything and “tends to maintain a stable, constant condition of properties”.  In a nutshell, when something changes within your body skews it one way, under the condition of homeostasis your body will do what it can to skew it back.  For example, when we get really hot or exert ourselves, our body kicks in and starts to sweat as a cooling mechanism.  If we exert ourselves too much and drive blood away from the brain, our body makes us fall down (fainting or passing out) in order to put blood back to the brain.  Blood clotting, metabolism regulation, and insulin/glucagon balance are all examples of positive and negative feedback loops.  In a nutshell, your body likes to stay stable as much as it can, even to the point of simply shutting you down if it needs to.  Your body isn’t stupid.  It is a massive supercomputer that deals with trillions of chemical interactions every minute.  You can’t expect it to be happy when you suddenly make a radical change.  If you suddenly decide to go outside and run for 20 kilometers when you never do it you are likely to have a heart attack or get hurt also.

So what happens when you go into caloric deficit like in these diets?  Well, you lose weight.  Of course you do.  Typically on diets like these people are dropping their caloric intake by up to 1000-1500 calories a day while also greatly reducing the amount of crap they are eating on a daily basis.  Then they get where they want to be (or “finish the challenge” with lots of pictures and raving fanfare) and simply change back to what they were doing before.  Most people under report how much they eat and over report the amount of exercise they actually do.  So the weight comes right back to where it was before, and you typically gain more because you feel like you deserve more after all of your hard work.  By the way, the whole “starvation mode” thing is a myth.  If you actually kept your calorie intake the same as it was when you’re on this “diet” then you wouldn’t necessarily gain all the weight back.  But nobody does that.  We magically think everything will stay the same, even though we have radically changed the rules of the game.

In our society today we all want quick fixes.  We want results right now and are willing to pay more money in order to get them faster if we really want something.  That email needs to be returned right away so I get a 4G phone instead of 3G.  That item you want you can buy online in five minutes rather than going to the store.  Results guaranteed in 90 days.  Even my clients expect miracles sometimes with removing their pain and getting them moving properly again or changing their body composition.  Sometimes I’m actually good enough to pull it off, but more often than not, it takes a while to get everything right again after years of abuse and neglect and a lot of work on their part doing everything right to bring it all together.

Olympians train for four years for one event, and we expect our body to change completely in 90 days.  The thing is, you can’t do that to your body.  It’s too smart.  It knows that stress, doing things quickly and trying to push beyond its’ current capacity means bad things, so it takes steps to not have that happen.  I’m going to ask you to simply listen to it.  Take the time to let it adapt, learn and move forward because whether or not you think you have time, you certainly don’t have time to waste.  As a society we need to get away from this idea that everything needs to happen right now and get back to what nature intended – slow, gradual change for the better.  I’m a firm believer that you can do anything that you want to do, but you have to give your body the chance to get there.  Let me know if you agree!

Why is that exercise bad?

I gained a new perspective this past weekend.  I’m currently going through the stages of the Resistance Training Specialist Mastery program which has really opened my eyes to seeing what we as exercise people do every day in a different way.  Often times I will hear a trainer tell a client or another trainer “that exercise is bad for you.”  They often do this without any other qualifier or they have that perspective simply because they were told it by somebody else and believed it to be true without looking into it themselves, as happens with pretty much everything within our industry.  I have been guilty of this myself.  A good example is this little exchange:

“Leg extensions are bad.”

“Why?”

“Because it puts shear force on your knee.”

Normally then the person being told this will just think shear is a horrible thing and they need to stay away from it forever.  Usually this trainer will follow up the discussion by telling their client how they need to squat instead, because squatting is really “functional”.  Squatting on a BOSU is even better because it’s an unstable surface so it works your “stabilizers”.  The issue is simply that 99% of the time, the person giving the advice has no idea what shear even is, how it is represented as a force within that movement and how it is applied to the joint, or (more importantly) whether or not it should be.  Again, I’ll reiterate that I have been guilty of this too because I don’t want it to seem like I’m completely innocent with conversations like this.  I used words all of the time that maybe I shouldn’t have because it is an easy way to get a point across to a client or co-worker without them looking at you blankly.

Some questions that immediately spring to mind is does that person even know what shear actually is?  Why is shear bad?  Why is it bad for that person?  Is there another way to do the same thing with a different overall result?  Or a way to get the same result doing something different?  Often we as trainers don’t think much beyond “good or bad”.  What we don’t consider is if this is good or bad for that person at that time within the capacity of having no idea what might be going on within that joint beyond what we can find out with our limited ability to check it.  It brings things to a higher level of responsibility, which is where in my opinion people in my profession should hang out.  Unfortunately most of us can’t or even worse, can’t be bothered.

There really is no good or bad exercise, there are simply increasing and decreasing levels of appropriateness of the exercise based on the person involved, what you are trying to do to them and why you are trying to do it.  The great thing about what I am now learning is that I can completely alter the force going through a joint to make it harder, or safer, or apply things there that I want to without causing things I don’t want to have happen.  It’s like magic, but really it isn’t – it is just attention to detail, being as sure of something as you can be and keeping the intention in mind to help the client get what you want them to get.  It brings in the mastery of what we do, which is affect the body and it’s many joints in a way that can either bring something good or something bad.  There is a lot of trial and error involved, but as we get really masterful at it, there might be a bit less error.

I know a lot about the body and how it moves and works and does all of the little things that go on every second of every day that affect your daily living and health.  One of the most valuable things I probably learned this past week was what I don’t know.  And that’s okay – provided that I don’t pretend that I do or just ignore it and do something to somebody anyway without any mindful thought towards what I am doing.  That’s what study and application is for.  You just can’t label things right away without knowing exactly what is going on.  I’m happy to have this new perspective and with any luck I’ll be able to affect people in a much more appropriate way now that I have it.  Feel free to comment on what I’ve said and think about it yourself.  You might be surprised!

Shifting Gears

This article was prompted by a client of mine this morning so it is really fresh in my mind.  Having prepared her workout ahead of time, she walked in looking like a pile of something I would scrape off of the gym floor.  Asking her how she spent her weekend, she told me that her and her husband had spent the better part of the weekend moving furniture, painting walls, sealing decks and she was exhausted and sore all over.  After thanking her for coming in, I promptly revamped her workout completely (no deadlifts needed today!) and made sure she felt a lot better before she left through a combination of joint mobility, yoga and passive simple movement patterns.  She was grateful, but it also brought me to the point of today: shifting gears.

Often in life we get things thrown at us last minute, and as a trainer one of the harder skills to master is when a client comes in and states that they are unable to do something because of a minor injury or illness and we have to change things around without taking away from the time they have paid us for.  I’ve had clients actually walk into the gym on crutches, having a leg workout programmed for that day.  Surprise!  It is really irresponsible of a trainer to just go ahead and do whatever workout they have planned anyway, not realizing that the nervous system of that person may not be able to handle certain movements if they are tired, stressed or already feeling pain.  Being able to flow up and down the neurological scale is really essential to being able to provide a great exercises experience for that client on that day.

What about for us outside of the gym?  Are you easily able to shift gears in your personal and professional life?  Or even in the car on the way to work?  So many of us just move through life without thinking about what’s next because we are either used to a routine or pattern, or just don’t want to put forth the effort to adjust things around.  I have to admit that this type of thing really drives me crazy – which my wife can attest to – but I’m working on it slowly.  Being able to adapt to new and unexpected situations can be difficult, but it does not have to be as stressful as some people make it out to be.  It can also often be fun if you end up doing something or being somewhere unexpected.  I actually have read about a new movement called “Yes Man” like the movie where for one month you agree to do pretty much everything anyone suggests and just see what happens.  Some of the reports from people doing this type of thing are pretty incredible, from landing whole new careers to meeting the partner of their dreams.

Another way to think about this is just gearing either up or down a little bit.  If life throws you a curve ball, you don’t need to necessarily come to a screeching halt, turn around and head another direction.  You might just need to slow down, take a deep breath and keep moving forward.  Sometimes you need to shift into a higher gear to get past a checkpoint and begin to start working on the next one.  The point is to be able to easily adapt and be flexible to what life throws at you, and not let it throw you off.  Some simple strategies when you feel this coming on are to simply stop and take a few deep breaths and think about what you’re going to do.  I know when I have to do it I stand there like Rain Man for a few moments while my brain shifts over and I start thinking about what I have to do.  It might look funny, but it gets the job done.

I hope that I can make you think about this skill and how you can use it in your day to day world.  In mine it is really different than for example in an Emergency Room, or in a Board Room when a customer throws you a curve ball.  It takes some time and skill to master, just like anything else worth doing.  But the same basic principle remains – learn how to do it and if you can do it easily, your life suddenly gets a lot easier in a hurry.

By the way, we are 6 months done with the year – do you need to shift gears towards your goals?  Take a beat and think about it.  Then shift up!